Anal Sex Toys - Beginners Guide
So, youre ready to enrich your sexual experience by taking the plunge and trying out the proverbial back door better known as the anus. There are a number of wonderfully designed anal sex toys to help you in your exploration.
There are some preparations you should make before purchasing your first sex toy. An anus is used for pushing things out, rather than letting things in, so you have to teach it how to relax and not do what nature intended. It needs to get used to the sensation of penetration. Here are two simple steps that will help immensely.
1. Masturbate
Masturbation will get your body good and aroused. If you are turned on and relaxed, experimenting with your anus will cause less painful sensations.
2. Finger Insertion
Make sure youve washed your hands, trimmed your nails and have anal lube. When you push your finger into your anus, stop as soon as you feel your anus tighten. You are training your sphincter muscles to relax. When they do, press a little deeper and stop again when they contract. Once your finger is inserted, move it around in little circles while trying to keep your muscles relaxed. This will take a little time and effort, but once you are able to keep your finger inserted and your muscles relaxed, you are ready to step up to an anal sex toy.
Suggested Starter Toys
Now that your muscles can relax during penetration, youre ready to try something better than a finger. Here are a few suggestions for anal sex toys that are suitable for a beginner.
Anal Beads
Anal beads look like a string of pearls with a handle on the end. The beads come in a variety of sizes, materials and colors. The beads are inserted into the anus, then drawn out at a variety of speeds to give stimulation and pleasurable sensations. They can be used alone or with a partner for a bit of added spice.
Anal Dildos/Vibrators
This phallus-shaped toy is smaller in length and girth than traditional dildos, and can come with beaded tips for more pleasure. These sex toys are also available with vibration for added yumminess.
Butt Plugs
The butt plug is perfect for those who want a feeling of fullness during masturbation or sex. Available in a number of sizes from small to monstrous, the plug is inserted in the anus and stays there during other pleasurable activities, enhancing them. Butt plugs can be pear-shaped, ribbed or even inflatable. All should have a flared base.
These are three of the basic anal sex toys suitable for beginners. Sensual, simple to use and just plain fun, they can bring a level of sexual pleasure to your sex life never before experienced. Whether you play with the toys alone or with a partner, pleasure is always good. The only other bit of advice Id like to share is when doing anything involving the anus, remember to lube, lube, lube!
