Q: I think of cock all the time. I am a dude. I have a girl friend and I am turned on by her but I have a love for cock. I am turned on by girls much more than men, but I have many fantasies of being the submissive with a man. Can I sustain a relationship with my girl while this exists?

A: Yes, I think you can sustain a relationship with your girl as long as she’s fine with this. Clearly you have this dominatrix fetish and you want your girl to take in charge in the bed. Ask her in a very moderate manner about your fantasy. If she agrees with you then you can introduce dominatrix sex toys like strap ons. We have different kinds of strap-ons find what suits you best and what makes your girl comfortable wearing.