This entry is for the on the prowl men out there who are scavenging for someone to hook up with for the night. I realized that I am becoming so unfair because most of my entries are for the ladies. So this time, I will divulge some of the hidden messages that us women pull off to send guys the “signal” that we are there ALONE and we need some company.
You can see a single woman from a huge pile of crowd through her eyes. If her eyes are darting all over as if looking for someone, that’s
Couples are goggling around the idea of how they will lessen the fight scene and focus on how to make their lives hassle-free. It downright to the issues that mostly blame by these lovebirds… well, that there’s an undefined gap between women’s mentality to men’s egos.
Now who’s to be blame?
I guess it’s easy to say than doing it but accept it or not… everything that happens in and out of your relationship will depends on how the couples deals with it.
Adjustments are crucial to both and it MUST be a part of your relationship.
I know I have been trying to lecture you on how to separate emotion and sex. I am writing like smart-crack Einstein and acting like I am Ms.-Know-It-All when it comes to casual hook ups. But I am but just human, I also have feelings and I also… how can I say this, capable of violating the rule.
Being over the yips dwells me back in the game. But hell no, I caught the disease. It was crazy and nauseating. I slept with him one time to get over this yips and the next thing I knew…
Finally, I got over the yips invasion. I am sorry that I have to really include this and share to you my readers how I want to celebrate this rewarding event in my life. Like what I said in my previous entry, the yips is an unexplained sickness to a person when he or she tends to over think something. It also applies to sports, academics, sexual moves etc. What I am trying to say was, even if I can consider myself as a season veteran in the field of casual hook-ups, I can also acquire this yips.
I am still not yet over with the yips yet so instead of wasting my time whoring around and wasting my time trying to hook up with random men and ended up screwing up. I decided to lock myself in my room and do something worthwhile instead of embarrassing myself in public.
Now that I am temporarily injured and out of the game, all I can do right now is to keep myself busy with something else to suffice my cravings through self-pleasure. And so far I have reached a 100% satisfaction every time I touch myself as compare
Sometimes no matter how good you are at something when you tend to over think you will manage to screw things up. Like what happen to me last weekend, I am at a super cool event and I saw a fine and gorgeous man sitting right across my table. I, a self-confessed flirt will definitely want to hit that. But, the guy is so astoundingly attractive and he is way beyond my league. I over think and that is how I got the yips.
The Yips is a slang word or an expression use by many to refer a
I haven’t been out for at least two weeks in a row. I found myself trapped in piles of unfinished workload and some other stuffs that I need to deal with. Anyway, around those times, I stumble upon a reality show that kind of tickles the public (of course I won’t say what show) and it is getting popular. That particular show exemplifies obscurity, sex, drugs and a lot of wild things. And what makes it worst, the characters are mostly young. I know that we are too liberal to these kinds of things but it got me thinking,
When you are living in the big city and embrace a life of social expansion through events, parties and etc. There is an absolute chance of you meeting a lot of different people. And for us girls, these kinds of social functions are like toy kingdom for men. Eighty five percent of them are there to wander around, select their potential prey and nail them to bed. However, not all of these men are looking for casual hooks up but they are also looking for potential relationship. Now, I can’t help but wonder, what are the signs that us girls
It is December ones again. We can see Christmas decors and lights on the streets. We hear Christmas carols non-stop playing on the radio, subways and malls. My point is this is the time for reunions, parties and events. And for a single, not so bad looking, financially stable single woman, this is the time for meeting my long lost friends, families, old colleagues and classmates. And in every party that I have to attend to there’s this always a single question that I can’t keep but wonder why I always end up being the one that has to answer.
I’ve been saying this over and over in my blog for the past couple of months that I’ve been into so many flings and casual hook ups. I don’t keep list because most of the time I can’t remember their names or I intentionally forget their names. Now I can’t help but wonder, among those men that I shared intimate moments with, who gave their best performance?
So now I am sitting here in my loft, trying to remember every hook ups that I’ve been through. And since I only keep score not their names; from my point of
A nymphomaniac is a person whose behavior digresses from what is acceptable especially in sexual behavior. In socio - cultural views, a nympho is considered a taboo. It is unacceptable and very degrading because this kind of action is supposed to be not acted upon by women. When I had my very first orgasm, I knew I had to do it again, more than ones or twice - more than I could possibly do in my lifetime. Now I can’t help but wonder should I consider myself a taboo because I love having sex more than normal people do?
Growing up in the country is a lot different from the city. People back there have peculiar ideologies and traditions that are somewhat unexplainable. So even as a child I knew, the city is not meant for me. The first opportunity that I had didn’t even make me think twice. I went to the city and became a writer. But after years of living the “city life” I knew there was one thing my mom used to tell me when I was still growing up. “Nothing good happens after 2 a.m.”, that is what my mom always reminds
Once upon a time, there was a fine young man who lives across a pub. It is his habit to celebrate his night along with a mug of beer and little conversation with women that he becomes acquaintance with. He isn’t that lovely and charming but he is not arrogant and prude. He is a good listener and a very wise man for his age. However, most of his sexual conquest fails miserably because he isn’t good enough for the kind of women he chooses to come home with. And that is why, this man, whom thy everyone called as
On my last entry, I meander upon the topic in which I divulged the different strategies, catch phrase and tactics that men use to hook up with us, women. I reveal the “Play Book” to all of you my dear readers so you can determine whether to run away from the man you are flirting with in that bar or not. But then again, one night, I came across another strategy that is so weird yet effective to make sense. It is totally distracting, inappropriate and weird but it somehow worked to me because 5 seconds later, I am banging
Everybody thought about it, but not everyone has the guts to do it. Filming your own amateur adult video is one of the most subtle acts of modern couples nowadays. Creating your home made sex movie can be a bit delicate considering the other factors that may arise in doing so. But with common knowledge and proper execution of guidelines, you can be sure that your first porn video will not be your last one. So now, I can’t help but wonder, how can we execute it properly without looking like a total newbie because afterwards you’ll watch this with
I heard it on the radio while I am on my way home. The male DJ was so passionate while reading his most recent discovery. I was nearly laughing out loud when he bragged to his listeners that most females would rather choose to be intoxicated before having sex with their partner for the first time. According to his research, most women drink alcohol before going to town with their man. Now I can’t help but wonder, is the reason behind this theory is women are so concern on how they look when they are naked? Is booze and libido
Sometimes when you are on the prowl for hook ups, you tend to forget your standards after two shots of cocktails on an empty stomach. You will feel less picky and flirtier. And afterwards you will find yourself, butt naked on a kitchen floor with some random guy that will definitely not qualify into your standards if you have not drink that two glasses of cocktails when you already know that you haven’t eaten yet. However, damage has been done and you ended up fucking that “wrong” guy anyway, so the next thing you need to do is manage to
After a series of how to do guidelines and advices about casual sex and hooking up, the next big question is, where can we make it happen? Yes I am talking about places, spots or hang outs where we can practice what we have learned in my past entries.
You see, the new generation of casual hook ups does not only revolve in the orbit just like the old days. Way back thousands of years ago, the only places we can score a hook up are the clubs. Yes, the semi-lit techno rockin’ room where you need to shout
Ladies, you are now aware that when it comes to hooking up and dating men I can rock the world with my fingertips. And so, I present to you The Play Book. It is the list of catch phrase that men will pull off just to get into our pants. As you may know, these men are actually plotting ways and scheme just to get us naked. They will totally do anything just to get laid. So before you actually fall for their plays, I will crack their lies up so you can run away and save your
I hate to break the ice in here but I know I just have to do it somehow. When your age reach the marrying bracket and you are still single the society will start to ask why aren't you married yet? For someone like me who has stable career and pretty decent salary, I have to encounter this kind of question. And this question usually paired with a sympathetic face as if you are very unfortunate. And if you answered them how happy and ok you are with the idea and it really doesn't matter, they will either thought of