Male sex tips from a lesbian

When talking about a woman`s body, or any insecurities she may have about it, you must be extremely careful about the words you use. When she asks you if she looks fat she wants an honest, yet flattering answer. Don`t ever say: "I like you just the way you are." Regardless of how your partner actually looks, your "compliment" will be interpreted that you`re lowering your standards to accommodate her imperfect body. There are other faux-pas responses, but the worst has to be: "Well, honey, there`s just more of you to love." If it seems like a no-win situation, you can turn it around by saying: "You are beautiful" and then proceed to gently touch all the areas she is self-conscious about. The more compliments you give her, the more attractive, confident and sexually desirable she will feel and therefore be. Women feel the same pressure about breast size that men feel about penis size. While many men might love a busty woman, most naturally well-endowed females are self-conscious about the size of their breasts. They may have been teased when they were young. For this reason, it isn`t a good idea to say: "Wow, you are stacked. I never realised your tits were so big." Women with small breasts probably got teased too. But many men prefer small, perky breasts to large ones. But don`t call them "small", just call them "beautiful". Do share the responsibility for birth control with your partner. This may mean buying the condoms and sharing any costs. Or it could mean going with her to the gynaecologist if she wants you to. Don`t complain about using a condom and never pressure her to go on the pill. Take a genuine interest and discuss the subject with her. And if your lover does fall pregnant unexpectedly, don`t run away. Take on some of those lesbian communication skills and discuss it with her. It`s up to each individual to decide whether to engage in sex while drunk or high, but at least be honest with yourself about the possible effects. Let`s just say that drug and alcohol use isn`t going to make you a Casanova.