Strong Feelings

About two weeks ago I was chatting with some friends of mine in my regular chat spot, when a man [whom I`ll refer to as William] came in and we started chatting. We really hit it off, and I gave him my email address-something I don`t normally do the first time I chat with someone. I emailed him back, and we talked the next day as well. By this time we knew that we were beginning to feel something for each other. . . when I had to leave we didn`t want to let go.

I left the next day for Spring Break, but not until we had exchanged snail mail addresses. I wrote him twice over the break, and when I returned he had sent me a picture of his soccer team and a letter. We told each other our life histories and we found that we both had significant others in "the real world", but it didn`t matter. . . it didn`t change the way we felt. We chat all the time now and exchange email constantly.

I`ve told him that while I still love my boyfriend, I also love him. He thinks I am being treated badly and he even made the suggestion that perhaps we could make beautiful music together. I do have strong feelings for this person, but at the same time I still love my boyfriend. What is a girl to do?